Feeling Disconnected, Releasing Control, Relationship Challenges, and Trusting the Manifestation Process

Have you ever felt completely out of sync with the Universe? Like no matter what you do, the inspiration just isn’t there? That’s exactly where I found myself recently—sitting in my car during my daughter’s cheerleading practice, feeling low-energy, unmotivated, and completely disconnected from Source.

But here’s what I’ve realized: these moments, these moods, are valuable. They’re not signs that we’ve lost our way; they’re part of the manifestation process. Instead of leaning into fear—fearing I’d lost my purpose or that I wasn’t in flow—I chose to lean into patience and trust. Even in the lulls, I knew I was still on my path.

Releasing Control and Embracing Flow in Manifestation

I stopped forcing myself to create. I stopped trying to plan every detail of my podcast, The Energetic Glow Up. Instead, I followed what felt aligned, what felt fun. Sometimes, that meant doing nothing at all—just resting and reflecting. And that’s okay. This is a key part of emotional alignment.

It felt like I was preparing to leave a place, like I was packing up my old energy and getting ready to step into something new. The Universe has plans to prosper all of us, and even when I couldn’t see what was next, I trusted that whatever was coming was aligned with my highest good.

Navigating Relationship Challenges as Growth Opportunities

While I was aligning with myself, my relationship with my fiancé, Eric, was going through its own transformation. We’ve always had this intense, passionate connection—a deep knowing that we were meant to be together. But recently, our energies just weren’t vibing. We weren’t on the same wavelength, and it led to tension.

For a moment, I questioned everything. I wondered if maybe this relationship wasn’t going to work. I even released him—not out of anger, but out of love and alignment with myself. Spoiler alert: that lasted about 24 hours. But it wasn’t the time apart that mattered; it was the act of standing in my truth, even when it was scary.

I had fears—fears of being alone in my late 30s, fears of misreading the signs from Source, fears of having made the wrong choice. But facing those fears created space for us to grow. We had open, honest conversations about who we are and who we want to be—not just for each other, but for ourselves.

Healing My Divine Feminine Energy and Embracing Support

One of the biggest shifts in our relationship came when I allowed myself to receive his care. It sounds simple, but when Eric replaced a light bulb in my fridge, it felt monumental. I used to pride myself on doing everything myself, always saying, "I got it." But that wasn’t the point.

Accepting his support wasn’t about the light bulb—it was about healing my divine feminine energy and being open to receiving love and care. I realized that being in alignment doesn’t mean doing everything alone; it means allowing space for others to show up for you.

How to Trust the Manifestation Process When You Feel Disconnected

Through all of this—the disconnection, the relationship challenges, the fears—I’ve learned to trust the process. Manifestation isn’t just about feeling high-vibe all the time. It’s about honoring every emotion, every phase, and knowing that even when it doesn’t look perfect on the outside, you’re still on your path.

The Universe is always guiding us, even when we can’t see it. So if you’re feeling disconnected, uninspired, or unsure of your next step, trust that it’s all part of the process. Protect your alignment like your best life depends on it—because it absolutely does.

Final Thoughts: Trust Yourself and the Universe

Let’s manifest from these high timelines. Let’s jump timelines. Let’s hijack the f*ck out of some timelines.

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Until next time, stay aligned and trust your journey.

xx,

RAIVON